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The best Valentine’s Day gift for dads is to give them the time to enjoy the things they love doing, whether that’s with their kids, their partner, friends, or by themselves. All of the items on this list are curated with that in mind, including gadgets and services that will help him save time on a daily basis as well as items that will help him relax, recharge, and explore his hobbies during his downtime. One of my favorite Valentine’s Day gift ideas for dads is giving a gift related to a hobby or activity my partner enjoys, and then lining up a nanny or sitter to ensure he actually has the time to enjoy using the gift!
Keep reading for 21 Valentine’s Day gift ideas for all kinds of dads, from new dads to working dads, health fanatics, and movie lovers. Some gifts are perfect from the kids, others are best from you — skip ahead to the section you need.
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Valentine’s Day Gifts For Dads From Kids (Sweet & Easy)
These Valentine’s Day gifts are especially meaningful when they come “from the kids.” They’re simple to give, sentimental without being cheesy, and perfect for new dads or dads with young children.
If your kids are old enough to do simple writing or drawings, gift this handcrafted leather tray that's engraved with your child’s actual artwork or handwriting. It’s practical enough to hold keys, watches, or cufflinks — and guaranteed to make him smile every time he sees it.
If you're looking for a Valentine's Day gift idea for a new dad "from baby," this handprint kit is especially meaningful. The soft clay makes it easy to capture a baby’s hand or footprint, and it includes letter stencils and ribbon so you can personalize it or turn it into a keepsake ornament.
For dads with elementary school-aged kids, these "dad joke" items are a fun Valentine's Day gift idea. If the dad in your life is anything like my husband, he will get a kick out of this button or calendar. It’s a fun way to add a little moment of joy into their day, and they’ll have fun sharing their favorite jokes with the kids to make them laugh... For instance, how do you make a Kleenex dance? Put a little boogie in it…
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Pizza-Loving Dads: Pizza Oven or Stone
Sure, pizza from your favorite spot is always tasty, but making it yourselves for a date night or with the kids for a family event is super fun. This is a great Valentine’s Day gift for dads because they’ll continue to use the items for years to come. Our personal chef recommends this pizza oven for small families and this one for larger families.
He says it’s important to know the temperature in the oven, so you’ll also want to add this temperature gauge. For a cheaper alternative, try a pizza stone. “You get a different result, but for the price, it's good,” says our chef. He recommends this pizza stone. Bon appétit!
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like Playing Games: Card Games
Card or board games are an especially great Valentine’s Day gift if you like playing games together. One card game my partner and I love playing is Guillotine. We bring it with us everywhere we travel since it doesn’t take up much space. The premise is that it's the French Revolution and your "rival guillotine operators vying for the best collection of noble heads." It's oddly competitive and sounds a bit dorky, but it’s legit really fun!
Codenames and Azul are other games we enjoy playing together as a couple. As a whole family, we’re really into playing Yahtzee with the kids right now. (For more of our favorite family games, check out our post on The Best Indoor Activities For Families.)
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Need More Sleep: Adjustable Pillow
This adjustable pillow is an amazing Valentine’s Day gift idea for any dad who could use a good night’s sleep. (I’m looking at you, new dads and overworked dads.) What makes it unique is that you can add or remove the memory foam fill until you’ve achieved your desired pillow firmness. I bought the cut out one since I’m a side sleeper, and got my husband the crescent one since he sleeps on both his back and side. The pillow comes in a small box, which is a bit disorienting at first because it’s totally flat as you unroll it. But give it an hour, and it expands to its full size. They also provide extra stuffing if you want a firmer pillow. I added a bit more to mine and had one of the best sleeps of my life. It felt like I was sleeping on a cloud.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Into Yoga: Yoga Mat + Dice
Any dad who likes to destress with yoga will love a Manduka pro mat paired with these wooden yoga dice for stretching or practicing yoga at home. The dice are a fun way to encourage him to take a quick meditative/stretch break during the day (and kids will love trying to make all the same shapes as dad on the dice if you want to make it a family game and add a few laughs).
You could also gift him regular in-home yoga classes, one of my favorite mobile services. He will appreciate all the time this saves him on a weekly basis since he won’t have to deal with leaving the house, driving, parking, etc. Trust me, the sense of zen lasts longer when you don’t instantly have to deal with driving! Or, book a couple's in-home yoga class for Valentine’s Day.
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Love To Automate Things: Smart Plug
This smart plug works with Alexa to automate whatever it’s connected to. I love the idea of connecting it to your coffee pot so you can just say: “Alexa, turn on the coffee maker at 6 am” and your dad will have a fresh pot of coffee waiting for him in the morning. We haven’t personally gotten this for our coffee maker since we have a Miele automatic coffee maker built into the wall, BUT I would totally buy this if I still used an old-school coffee maker. Genius! And it works for so much more than just coffee. Your dad could connect this to whatever device or appliance he wants: an electric kettle, fan, air purifier, lamp, etc.
Valentine’s Day Gifts For New Dads
This sweet mug is a great Valentine’s gift for a new dad. They’ll enjoy sipping their coffee or tea out of it each day. Plus, it comes in a set with a Mama Bear mug so you can gift one to yourself too.
A digital picture frame is a thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift for new dads who spend time at a desk or home office. We love placing ours near the dining table—no screens during dinner, but the rotating photos spark conversation, laughs, and memories as they appear.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like To Play Sports: A Day To Do That
As I mentioned above, one of my favorite Valentine’s Day gift ideas for dads is to give them a day to enjoy their favorite activity, whether that’s golf, tennis, surfing, or something else. This means you’ve cleared your schedule so you can handle taking care of the kids that day, or you’ve secured a weekend nanny or sitter so you both can take a self-care day. (If you need help finding a babysitter, Proxy can point you to vetted agencies for finding on-demand, background-checked sitters. And we have a free, customizable Babysitter Information Sheet to help organize all the information you would want a sitter to know, making handoffs easy.)
Whenever I give a service or gift certificate, I like to pair it with a physical item as well, so they have something to unwrap. For example, for the dad who loves golf, I’d pair a gift certificate for a day at their favorite course (if they’re not already a member of a golf club) with this set of new golf balls or this indoor mini putting green for their office or home. If they’re more into tennis, give them a set of tennis balls. If they like surfing, surf wax. Rock climbing, hand chalk. You get the idea. End the day by booking them an in-home massage with Soothe. Or, text Proxy — (820) 732-2625 — for help finding a mobile massage near you.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like Watching Movies: Portable Projector
We have a projector and screen at our house that we thought would be used for special occasions, like themed movie nights with friends, when we installed it. But we LOVE the big screen experience for all the shows we watch. The only one that was a bit too big was watching the original Jersey Shore (It was Covid — we were desperate for entertainment, don’t judge us). The kids also get real joy watching the big screen. I love how this one is portable so you can set it up in different areas, or even use it to host an outdoor movie night.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Into Wellness: Face Mask or Facial
Face masks aren’t just for women, and these Bro Masks can be used in the comfort of your own home. You could also pair these with an in-home facial or massage from Soothe to really pamper your partner this Valentine’s Day.
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Health-Conscious Dads: Concierge Health Assessment
A Health Assessment by Concierge MD is a great Valentine’s Day gift for any dad who is focused on his health. It includes a full blood panel that’s performed in the comfort of your own home. Then, you schedule an appointment with a doctor to review it all. They will spend anywhere from 30 min-1 hour on the phone with you, going through the results line-by-line. It’s fascinating to have someone explain what all the different levels and results mean when it comes to your body, age, etc. It’s pricey, but nothing says love like good health. It’s ~$900 for the health assessment (only $~700 with Proxy).
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads To Keep The Romance Alive
An Arya monthly subscription is a great Valentine’s Day gift for dads who want to play more in the bedroom. Every month, they send you a different set of toys and provide playlists and, more importantly, instructions for how to use the items. You take a short 5-minute quiz when you first sign up, so they understand each partner a bit more, and customize your box accordingly. It’s a great way to dip your toes in the water and connect with your partner!
Another sexy gift idea is these date night dice that you roll to help plan the evening. There are dice for what to eat, what to do and sexy time, so you can let fate plan your romantic evening. Or, gift your partner this massage candle. After burning the candle and enjoying its scent for 15 minutes, you can blow it out and use the melted wax as a moisturizing body oil for massages. The oils they use for this candle have a very low melting point, so it doesn’t get too hot and can be poured directly onto your skin once melted and extinguished. Don’t just try this with any candle!
For a sexy game option, this Talk, Flirt, Dare game is great for couples. It’s designed to foster conversation and connection, add some passion and romance, and will also make you laugh with some of the dare cards!
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads With Pets: Automatic Feeder
You know I love automating things so you don’t have to waste mental space thinking about whether or not something was done. Any busy dad with a dog or cat will appreciate this automatic pet feeder. We don’t have an automatic feeder because we have to add supplements for our older dog to each meal, but LOVE this flippable sign that indicates whether or not our dog has been fed. We USE this obsessively in our house so we know when one of us — or our nanny — has fed the dog. It's one less thing to check in about with your partner, especially when you have multiple people supporting you in the house.
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like To Game: Mobile Gaming Controller
This is a fun gadget for dads who like playing video games. The controller connects to their phone, instantly turning it into a gaming console. It’d be perfect for traveling for work when they are solo in the hotel, or don’t want to actually respond to emails on the flight.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like Deep Conversations
As parents, it’s so easy to get into the habit of only talking about the kids or what needs to be done around the household. These 100 Question conversation starter cards by Oprah are a fun way to reconnect and talk about yourselves on an evening out. That set isn’t specific to couples so you could also use them when hosting dinner parties or friends at the house. Another great set of conversation cards is Where Shall We Begin By Ester Perel. Even when you’ve been together for 10+ years, there’s still always more to learn about each other.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like To Grill: Grill Set
This grill set is the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for dads who like to grill in their downtime, and comes recommended by our personal chef. He also recommends ensuring they have a nice thermometer as well. "A good thermometer is essential for safe and accurate grilling,” he says.
Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Trying To Drink Less
My husband LOVES these non-alcoholic gin and tonics. It’s a great way to enjoy the habit, ritual, and taste of drinking, while still being fully present with the kids.
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Valentine’s Day Gift For Dads Who Like To Cook: Cooking Class
Culinistas is a company that vets private chefs who can come to your house for a variety of purposes, including hosting a cooking class! You could host one in your house for just the two of you for a Valentine’s Day date night or invite a few other friends to join (they can accommodate up to 12 people). This is a fun way to cook together, learn a new recipe, and then have a romantic dinner date while you eat what you’ve cooked. (Proxy subscribers get 10% off the cooking classes.)
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